I used to hope for straight answers about homework. I didn’t think I would hear the excuses, the stumbling and more misdirection than a presidential press conference.
And then I had boys.
I had an inkling they would be different, based on my alert observations in child development classes. It wasn’t long after the boys entered school when they distinguished themselves with their eating and bathing habits.
For the most part, girls were so easy with homework. They could be stranded in an Iraqi Department of Motor Vehicles line and they would still have their books out. No phone calls from teachers that I can remember. My daughters made their old man look like a genius.
Oh how different it is now. My boys are hardwired to chew with their mouth open, stall after school and explain away missing assignments.
They’ve got a story for everything, it seems. I’m sure, given enough time, they could convince me that Bigfoot lives and John Travolta never made a bad movie.
Some of my favorite excuses:
“I know I turned that in.”
“I did all the stuff that I could do.” (My boys would make great union workers. That’s not my job.)
“I’m planning to do that later,” (after complete that necessary research with DISH television.)
And the stalling. It never stops. I’m pretty certain that Spencer could get sidetracked by Snuggie commercial.
But still, I keep teaching about importance of school and how it will prepare them for life.
I’m just wondering when I should tell them about my record of 22 missing assignments.

4 comments
Steph (sahans) says:
Oct 28, 2009
My favorite is "I forgot to put my name on it"
One day I am going to forget to feed them… let's see how well that goes over.
CateHahn says:
Oct 29, 2009
My dad actually accepted my "the moose stomped my backpack and ruined my homework" excuse, and my "my backpack fell through the ice when I was crossing the lake" excuse. I never got away with the usual excuses!
Veronica Sopher says:
Nov 3, 2009
I had to chuckle, knowingly.
We're dealing with some of this now because he has decided to simply ignore assignments that he didn't enjoy. (And really, some of those assignments are pretty silly.) So I found myself teaching my son about "you gotta do what you gotta do" in life. It's not one of my favorite lessons though.
KimN says:
Nov 8, 2009
Haha, I hope my kids never ask too many questions about my school years. We will use Brett as the good example of a student.